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3 Sad Reasons Why You Don't Have A Life!

Sometimes we spend our days hating on our lives. We wonder why we are so unhappy and how come good things have not come your way?
You watch some people you think are successful and notice how every thing is so perfect and clean. Then you look at yourself and realize how much or worthless your life is.
Stop it right there!
Change your view of your life! You want those things in your life that make you happy? You want that side hustle you always wanted to do but never quite got to it.
I'm going to tell you below.
Can I tell you that there are forces conspiring against you. Conspiring into keeping you in the same cage as everyone else. Do you know what that cage is? It's called the average life. Yes what you live through everyday is the cage called Average.
A cage where all of us live the same way. Have the same jobs, drive the same cars, live in the same houses and even worse have others tell you how you should live your life!
Why? Because In other words you are being an adult and yet …

Destroying Statues Will Never Fix What Happened in the Past

As we all know the fiasco of what happened in Charlottesville has surprised and angered many people from many social groups.
I watched the whole thing as it degraded itself into an act of savagery and anger. People pushing, fighting and spitting at one another made me realize how easily humanity can unfurl itself and reveal the chaos underneath.
They say the reason this happened was because of a removal of a Confederate statue of a known Confederate leader. This is what they say has caused this embarrassing act to happen. In reality though there were many other motivations at play that pushed these people and event to end up the way it did.
But for now I would like to stick to why people have this fascination of removing statues they feel offended about? Most statues there are of historical people who changed the world in one aspect or another. My view tends to be that those statues are there as a way for people not to forget what happened. A way to look at and know what the statue repre…

When Those You Love Turn Out to be the Enemy.

The other day it was 10:00 pm when all of a sudden my wife got a text from my Sister-in-Law. Figuring something might have happened since her Husband my brother was away serving his country I'm thinking she needed help.
Nah! It was the opposite!
All of a sudden as the texts rolled in from her. My wife got upset because those texts were reprimanding me and my wife. Saying that We are there to put a division between her and my brother. 
In reality I really don't give a shit! 
What benefit is there for me to try to separate you and my brother? There is no benefit for me at all so why would we waste our time doing something so stupid.
I have been nothing but trying to be in their life. If they needed help or what ever I would extend my hand out to help. But they are so secretive!
Me and my wife have tried many times to invite them out to eat. They don't even have to pay!! But every time we would get the same excuse for them not coming.
Not only that when I was in NY and would find out…

Holy Crap! I became a Father to a Baby Girl!

This is the story of a man who finally had to realize that he needed to start taking his life seriously!
Several years ago I got married to my now Wife. During that time we had loads of fun! We traveled, went out dancing and eating. 
Life was good and I did not have a care in the world!
I used to think about how married people complained so much about the responsibility you have to accept when you get married. Since my life was going good I figured those people were just crazy and angry.
They probably married the wrong person which is why their relationship sucked which is what I thought at the time.
Then the bomb was dropped!
My wife became Pregnant with our child. I remember when she told me about it how happy I was but deep inside it felt like a large boulder fell on my head! 
Like most people I ignored the problem.
But as the baby grew larger and larger and she began to show I started to become paranoid! I started to wonder if I had what it takes to be a good Father. My mind was racing wi…

To Have a Successful Career you will need the right College Degree.

These days young people are ready  and eager to start their Adult lives. It's a great time full of wonder and excitement of what their future will hold.
But before you go out and commit 4 years to get a degree have you really done your research? 
By that I mean have you searched what jobs are in demand these days? 
Far too many young people jump off the cliff hoping to land in some water and instead hit the rocks because the career they chose is not in demand.
I know many people who have a degree in whatever under the sun and yet in the White Collar Man world most are just lowly cubicle dwellers and are only there because they need to survive.
These people do the same thing day in and day out totally unhappy with their choice. 
We cannot blame them for their poor choice only because we did not prepare them to see College and University as an investment. Instead we tell them that they should go to school to find themselves. As if you need to spend thousands of dollars a year for that.
If …

The One Important Thing You Should Do Before Interviewing!

Congratulations! 
You made it through College and now you are ready to make your mark in the world!
But before you do you will need to do this one important thing before you become a White Collar Man or Woman.
Go to your closet right now! 
At your closet? 
Good now tell me what you see hanging on those hangers? Do you have any Corporate clothes you can wear for job interviewing? What about it shoes?
You don't? 
Then may I say that it's time to change your wardrobe and add to your collection of Sportswear and setup a section for Corporate wear. 
Yes folks you will need to go out and buy some New clothes for work. 
What types of clothes? Well if you are going to go on interviews you will need to get your self a suit (if you can) if not you can buy your self some collared shirts and slacks  to get you through.
Types of shirts you should get are button down shirts preferably long sleeve in classic white or blue. No wild patterns that look too sporty or wild colors that make you look more li…