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Sleep apnea, The Dangerous Killer No One Expects!

I never heard of this issue called Sleep Apnea a few years ago when I was a lot more younger and Virile.
I have seen people snore my Dad snores and I have seen a few uncles who did as well. But it never occurred to me that something as simple as snoring can be really bad for anyone to have.
I have this uncle who snored like a monster and times he would stop breathing while sleeping and I would hear the air pushing hard to get out to a point that it would wake him up from a deep sleep.
I never really paid much attention to Sleep Apnea until several years ago when I got diagnosed. I did not notice that I had Sleep Apnea until I married my now Wife. 
She would constantly complain about how loud my snoring was and at times on how i would stop breathing. 
She would plead with me to get checked for that.
Of course being as stubborn as I am I did not go until she one day recorded me without knowing. I was with my baby daughter sitting down while she laid on the chest. I remember seeing how my head …

3 Sad Reasons Why You Don't Have A Life!

Sometimes we spend our days hating on our lives. We wonder why we are so unhappy and how come good things have not come your way?
You watch some people you think are successful and notice how every thing is so perfect and clean. Then you look at yourself and realize how much or worthless your life is.
Stop it right there!
Change your view of your life! You want those things in your life that make you happy? You want that side hustle you always wanted to do but never quite got to it.
I'm going to tell you below.
Can I tell you that there are forces conspiring against you. Conspiring into keeping you in the same cage as everyone else. Do you know what that cage is? It's called the average life. Yes what you live through everyday is the cage called Average.
A cage where all of us live the same way. Have the same jobs, drive the same cars, live in the same houses and even worse have others tell you how you should live your life!
Why? Because In other words you are being an adult and yet …

Destroying Statues Will Never Fix What Happened in the Past

As we all know the fiasco of what happened in Charlottesville has surprised and angered many people from many social groups.
I watched the whole thing as it degraded itself into an act of savagery and anger. People pushing, fighting and spitting at one another made me realize how easily humanity can unfurl itself and reveal the chaos underneath.
They say the reason this happened was because of a removal of a Confederate statue of a known Confederate leader. This is what they say has caused this embarrassing act to happen. In reality though there were many other motivations at play that pushed these people and event to end up the way it did.
But for now I would like to stick to why people have this fascination of removing statues they feel offended about? Most statues there are of historical people who changed the world in one aspect or another. My view tends to be that those statues are there as a way for people not to forget what happened. A way to look at and know what the statue repre…

When Those You Love Turn Out to be the Enemy.

The other day it was 10:00 pm when all of a sudden my wife got a text from my Sister-in-Law. Figuring something might have happened since her Husband my brother was away serving his country I'm thinking she needed help.
Nah! It was the opposite!
All of a sudden as the texts rolled in from her. My wife got upset because those texts were reprimanding me and my wife. Saying that We are there to put a division between her and my brother. 
In reality I really don't give a shit! 
What benefit is there for me to try to separate you and my brother? There is no benefit for me at all so why would we waste our time doing something so stupid.
I have been nothing but trying to be in their life. If they needed help or what ever I would extend my hand out to help. But they are so secretive!
Me and my wife have tried many times to invite them out to eat. They don't even have to pay!! But every time we would get the same excuse for them not coming.
Not only that when I was in NY and would find out…