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3 Sad Reasons Why You Don't Have A Life!

Sometimes we spend our days hating on our lives. We wonder why we are so unhappy and how come good things have not come your way?
You watch some people you think are successful and notice how every thing is so perfect and clean. Then you look at yourself and realize how much or worthless your life is.
Stop it right there!
Change your view of your life! You want those things in your life that make you happy? You want that side hustle you always wanted to do but never quite got to it.
I'm going to tell you below.
Can I tell you that there are forces conspiring against you. Conspiring into keeping you in the same cage as everyone else. Do you know what that cage is? It's called the average life. Yes what you live through everyday is the cage called Average.
A cage where all of us live the same way. Have the same jobs, drive the same cars, live in the same houses and even worse have others tell you how you should live your life!
Why? Because In other words you are being an adult and yet …

Destroying Statues Will Never Fix What Happened in the Past

As we all know the fiasco of what happened in Charlottesville has surprised and angered many people from many social groups.
I watched the whole thing as it degraded itself into an act of savagery and anger. People pushing, fighting and spitting at one another made me realize how easily humanity can unfurl itself and reveal the chaos underneath.
They say the reason this happened was because of a removal of a Confederate statue of a known Confederate leader. This is what they say has caused this embarrassing act to happen. In reality though there were many other motivations at play that pushed these people and event to end up the way it did.
But for now I would like to stick to why people have this fascination of removing statues they feel offended about? Most statues there are of historical people who changed the world in one aspect or another. My view tends to be that those statues are there as a way for people not to forget what happened. A way to look at and know what the statue repre…

When Those You Love Turn Out to be the Enemy.

The other day it was 10:00 pm when all of a sudden my wife got a text from my Sister-in-Law. Figuring something might have happened since her Husband my brother was away serving his country I'm thinking she needed help.
Nah! It was the opposite!
All of a sudden as the texts rolled in from her. My wife got upset because those texts were reprimanding me and my wife. Saying that We are there to put a division between her and my brother. 
In reality I really don't give a shit! 
What benefit is there for me to try to separate you and my brother? There is no benefit for me at all so why would we waste our time doing something so stupid.
I have been nothing but trying to be in their life. If they needed help or what ever I would extend my hand out to help. But they are so secretive!
Me and my wife have tried many times to invite them out to eat. They don't even have to pay!! But every time we would get the same excuse for them not coming.
Not only that when I was in NY and would find out…

Holy Crap! I became a Father to a Baby Girl!

This is the story of a man who finally had to realize that he needed to start taking his life seriously!
Several years ago I got married to my now Wife. During that time we had loads of fun! We traveled, went out dancing and eating. 
Life was good and I did not have a care in the world!
I used to think about how married people complained so much about the responsibility you have to accept when you get married. Since my life was going good I figured those people were just crazy and angry.
They probably married the wrong person which is why their relationship sucked which is what I thought at the time.
Then the bomb was dropped!
My wife became Pregnant with our child. I remember when she told me about it how happy I was but deep inside it felt like a large boulder fell on my head! 
Like most people I ignored the problem.
But as the baby grew larger and larger and she began to show I started to become paranoid! I started to wonder if I had what it takes to be a good Father. My mind was racing wi…

To Have a Successful Career you will need the right College Degree.

These days young people are ready  and eager to start their Adult lives. It's a great time full of wonder and excitement of what their future will hold.
But before you go out and commit 4 years to get a degree have you really done your research? 
By that I mean have you searched what jobs are in demand these days? 
Far too many young people jump off the cliff hoping to land in some water and instead hit the rocks because the career they chose is not in demand.
I know many people who have a degree in whatever under the sun and yet in the White Collar Man world most are just lowly cubicle dwellers and are only there because they need to survive.
These people do the same thing day in and day out totally unhappy with their choice. 
We cannot blame them for their poor choice only because we did not prepare them to see College and University as an investment. Instead we tell them that they should go to school to find themselves. As if you need to spend thousands of dollars a year for that.
If …

Why Work So Hard?

In the end your desk will not make it to your funeral!

Enjoy life right now and not later! Build something of value that you and others can use. Make your time valuable and productive.

Don't be like me! Strapped to a Desk helping users solve their Computer issues! It sucks! Believe me.

Because you want people to remember you as a Man who lived his life right, like that when you are on your deathbed you will go knowing that you have done something with your life!

This is how you become immortal!

Whatever Happened to Self-Reliance?

I don't know but I noticed especially now that Self-Reliance is something that is no longer taught or revered. It's like we have become so conditioned to depend on others and on things that we just can't see how to do it on our own.
Every animal in this planet is Self-Reliant in one form or another. They learn to find food, breed, fight and at times kill so that they can live another day. This self-reliance is something that is bred and conditioned into every species. 
When animals are first born some depend on others for their survival until they are strong enough to go out or are forced out on their own. 
Unfortunately, we have forgotten to teach our children about self reliance. It's like many young people including older adults are totally useless on their own. It's like we are like little kids but in adult bodies.
We bitch and moan how unfair life is not or even knowing that we are the only ones that can change it. Yet we depend on strangers to help us with everyt…